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Practical Wisdoms for Flourishing in Difficult Situations

Paul T. P. Wong

Posted Jun 1, 2005

We all have experienced complex and difficult situations, which baffle the mind and defy rational solutions. All the scientific knowledge and technology in the world are of little help in the face of an urgent but ill-defined problem. Even the well-established principles in psychology and ethics fail to show us the right path.

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The Promises and Perils of Family

Paul T. P. Wong

Posted May 1, 2005

As a social institution, family matters for the individual as well as the nation. It is frightening to realize that as the family goes, so goes the civilization. We really need to take stock and find out where our families are heading.

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Rules for Positive Spontaneous Living

Posted Apr 1, 2005

Play is essential to a child’s learning and well-being; it is also a child’s full-time occupation. Life is a continuous flow, interrupted only by sleep and parental intrusions. What an exuberant display of energy and joy. There is no agenda, no ulterior motive, just the sheer pleasure of fun and games.

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The Power of Determination and Commitment

Paul T. P. Wong

Posted Mar 1, 2005

No other human power can match that of determination. It has the potential to create heaven or hell not just for oneself, but also for the world. It is the ultimate terminator, unstoppable and invincible; nothing can stand in its way – not obstacles, not dangers, not even death.

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The Healing Power of Forgiveness

Paul T. P. Wong

Posted Dec 1, 2004

The sentiment of hurt and anger flows forever through the veins of planet earth, seething like hot lava, ready to erupt with a vengeance, spitting fire and deadly ashes. Revenge knows no boundary, no time limits. Not even death can cancel the blood debt, which often passes on from one generation to another.

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Respect and Moral Values

Paul T. P. Wong

Posted Nov 1, 2004

You feel the sting, the hurt, whenever others insult or trivialize you. How should you react when people are rude or disrespectful? Should you get angry and react in kind, or should you try to rationalize and rise above the insult? Are you being too sensitive or expecting too much from people?

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The Loyalty Factor: Key to the Good Life

Paul T. P. Wong

Posted Oct 1, 2004

It is inconceivable to attain the good life in the absence of good relationships. Our joy is multiplied and sorrow divided a thousand times, when we share our feelings with family and friends. In the final analysis, all of one’s strengths and achievements would not mean very much, when one has to grow old and die alone, without a single friend or loved one.

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Restoration of Integrity in the Cheating Culture

Paul T. P. Wong

Posted Sep 1, 2004

Devastated and traumatized, Tim buries his head in his hands. The harsh words of the Vice-President still ring in his ears: “We are going to fire you for insubordination!” Replaying the scenes leading up to this dramatic encounter, Tim knows that he would not have done it differently.

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The Meaning of Responsibility and the Statue of Liberty

Paul T. P. Wong

Posted Aug 1, 2004

On a picturesque Hawaiian island, at long last I am able to shed all my burdens and responsibilities as easily as I shed my clothes. Lying on the sandy beach, looking into the wide open sky, listening to the rhythms of the surf, and feeling the gentle caress of the ocean breeze, I have a surreal sense of being in a different world – the pristine world of aboriginals.

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